Bacon

Becoming an alpha male, when not one naturally, is a daunting task. Boys in the Western world in particular are constantly indoctrinated as females and their natural male instincts to run around and fight with one another are demonized. Boys are then told that they are all as unique and special as their fingerprints. They are told that their opinions and lives are important in the grand scheme of things. Heh.

Nothing could be further from the truth.  Society has lied to all these boys. Most likely because boys that separate themselves from the pack bring instability.

Boys have been told how to bag a nice girl. Their mothers pushed them towards rewarding girls with gifts and acts when these girls have done nothing yet to warrant any rewards. Girls learn early on that they can get a boy to do almost anything for them and abuse this privilege. These boys eventually grow into either naïve romantics or become bitter and disgusted with females.

Boys have been told that it is necessary to tip-toe around what are seen as “taboo” subjects. We mustn’t offend anyone because everyone’s feelings are important. Fallacy.  Opinions mustn’t be dangerous or able to ignite the flames of discourse. Avoid anything that may come off as any type of ‘ist. Boys are told that it is better to be vanilla than spumoni. Argue according to the handbook or be cast out.

Boys are told that there is a lifestyle that is acceptable. There is a time-line that must be followed. Any divergence from this and you are hedonist who cares nothing for their own family and community. Blasé.

Boys are told that there are “good guys” and this is how they look.

However some boys look at the greats such as Washington, Patton, Berlusconi, Presley, etc and begin to wonder if what they’re told is true.

The Greats do not bend over for girls. They act kindly because either the girl has earned such an honor or because they do it for their own amusement. They do not treat girls as mythical and moral creatures that will solve all their inner turmoil. Nay they treat them as they treat everyone else, with shit-eating grins.

The Greats hold opinions contrary to the populous. They defend their opinion with zeal and steely gaze. They are denounced for their views, but this does not bother them. Having strong convictions is all they require to succeed. They do not fear to put gasoline on the embers of discussion. They may be reviled for their thoughts, but they earn a begrudging respect by the marshmallow spined majority.

The Greats live a life that appeals to them. They have one model, their own. They do not copy anyone else. They want a wife, they find a wife. They want multiple girlfriends, they build a harem. They wish to travel the world with a sleeping bag and a few camping pots, they take the trip. Freedom.

If you are not a natural alpha-male than you must shed the fat of society’s expectations. It is a difficult process that requires intense work and a belief that there is something better beyond the beliefs of the vox populi.

There are two forms of bacon. There is the cold bacon you buy in a supermarket. It is coated with a layer of fat. It is bland, unappetizing, and soft.

However with a little fire the bacon sheds its fat layer and takes form. It begins to separate itself from the other stripes of bacon, becoming its own shape and taking on a delicious taste and texture.

Make a choice: to live coated in fat or shed it.

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