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How to Become an Online Dating Pro
Of the many different types of game, Online Game (dating) is unique because it requires a significant amount of preparation and upkeep in order to be successful. Here are some of the required skills, qualities, and methods that you should strive to achieve and master:
- Excellent Grammar & Spelling
- High Quality, Exotic, and/or Unique & Interesting Photos
- Average or Above in Physical Looks* (face) and Physique (body)
- Well-written, Stand-Out, Cool, Interesting, Funny, Exciting, and/or Mysterious Profile
- Great Logistics (99% of encounters are dates w/ the occasional “bang-over”)
- Clever, Funny, Pre-Tailored Opener or Creative, Custom Stand-Out Opener
- Date Game (communication/escalation/seduction/closing skill)
- Excellent Screening Ability & Strategy to determine the type of girls you’re seeking
- Ability to Weed Out Potential Flakes, Attention Whores, Secret Internet Fatties, and Prudes
- Online Communication Skills (witty banter, intelligence, travel experience, articulating stories, etc.)
- Balance between cocky/funny and over-the-top asshole (messaging, profile, and in-person)
- Ability to meet (or exceed) women’s online perceptions of you in-person
*Obviously this is largely out of your control… but there are things you can do to tweak your look (style, hair, etc.).
The pool of women to choose from is constantly changing, as thousands of people enter and exit the online dating world everyday. Just don’t expect amazing results overnight. Like anything, it won’t be easy and takes a lot of practice to master. Luckily, the learning curve is significantly reduced when you know what needs to be done.
Learn what works, test out different profile styles and pictures, and keep tweaking until you figure out what gives you the best results. Regular game will take you the rest of the way.
Of course, I’ll be covering all of these topics and more in my online game book, slated for release sometime next year.
Internet Personas vs. Real Life Character
If you ran into me on the street, you would never know it was me. I guarantee it.
How we represent ourselves online is really only a hazy reflection of our true selves. It’s funny how people form very quick opinions about other people online without having gotten to know them first (much less in the real world). I’ll be the first to admit that I too do this myself (first impressions do tend to say a lot), but I usually try to give someone the benefit of the doubt before labeling or passing judgment.
Some of the negative comments and emails I get today probably would have phased me in the past (now I laugh). Back then, when someone said something cruel, hateful, or judgmental… I might have felt as though they were attacking my true character personally. When in reality, they were really only firing away at the shadowy perception of the person I allowed them to see.
I’ve always found this to be a very interesting topic.
There are plenty of “internet tough guys”, “keyboard jockeys”, and “fake personas” out there. It’s rare to find people who are really themselves online. It’s even rarer to find people who are completely honest and open with their beliefs and feelings.
I consider myself one of those people. That said…
You may be offended by what I have to say.
You may disagree with my views and personal perceptions.
You may even be disgusted by some of my opinions on life or women.
But you can’t hate me for being honest.
To the ultra sensitive females and zealous haters out there… chances are, most of the men in your lives probably lie to your face every day. They just won’t admit it.
Food for thought…
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